PRINCIPLE TWO- Talk about Parenting
1. How many children would you like to have? When?
2. What dreams do you have for our children?
3. Would you ever consider adopting a child?
4. What will make you a good parent? Me?
5. What fears do you have about parenting?
6. How do you feel children should be disciplined?
7. Do you believe in spanking?
8. How are we gong to handle birth control?
9. Do you believe a woman should stay home to raise the children?
10. When you were a child what did you want to be when you grew up?
PRINCIPLE THREE- Talk about Career and Growth Issues
1.What personal goals do you have in your profession?
2. How important is your job to you?
3. How many hours do you expect to work during a week?
4. How do you spend your discretionary time? Are you able to relax?
5. What are your strengths? Weaknesses?
6. Who are/were the important people in your life? Why?
7. How often do you like to get together with your friends? Be by yourself?
8. How do you make major decisions?
9. What are your dreams? Your greatest fears?
10. What was the saddest moment of your life? The most embarrassing?
PRINCIPLE FOUR- Talk about Finances
1. Who will be the primary money manager?
2. Are you a saver or a spender?
3. Do you have trouble balancing your check book?
4. What is your attitude toward credit cards and how do you use them?
5. Are you in debt? Why?
6. Did you have to go without wants or needs due to limited finances?
7. Can we agree on the need for a budget before we get married?
8. When/How should we begin planning for retirement?
9. How do you spend your discretionary money?
10. Have you ever been in legal trouble?
PRINCIPLE FIVE- Talk about Spiritual and Relational Issues
1. What is your concept of God?
2. What makes you angry? What makes you laugh?
3. Why is your faith important to you?
4. How do you like to show affection? Receive it?
5. What gives your life meaning?
6. What kinds of experiences do you hope we can share together?
7. What is your concept of fidelity? Infidelity?
8. How do you feel about divorce?
9. Have you ever been hurt by love?
10. When and how do you like to pray? |
